Why I bloody love this Queen's Birthday holiday.

This long weekend has been highly anticipated for Ezra and I for quite awhile now... Because we're such besotted little saps, we've decided to make this long weekend dedicated to celebrating our.. 100 day anniversary. Hahaha, I know, sappy. But it's sweet and we just like keeping track of how long we've been attatched to such a wonderful significant other. It'll be on sunday the 8th of June.

Our original plan was for me to go to Ezra's for lunch that day, have dinner and a little bit of bubbly ;) and for me to stay the night. Needless to say, the proposal was refused. Not by my parents (well, I only asked my Mum, Dad would have taken a little convincing but he's generally easy to win over), but Ezra's Mum. This surprised me a fair bit, she's usually pretty cool on it. She's picked up on the fact that we're both sexually active, and we're both very responsible about it, but I don't think it was that that made her refuse: I think it was the possibility of it causing trouble at my house, with my Dad.

Ezra's Mum, Lisa, is a lovely woman and very easy to talk to. I've talked to her alot and she knows alot about the various forms of domestic violence that occur in my household, I honestly don't blame her for refusing to let me stay over. I'm not going to take the topic up any further with anyone, I think now is not the time and I think I have to indirectly affirm with my father that he's comfortable with Ezra and I, um... Getting comfortable. He won't want to discuss it yet, he's very uncomfortable with that kind of thing - I'll wait awhile. Although, he has let Fez (Ezra's nickname) and I stay in my room for long periods of time. He used to complain about it a little, but he's ceased to do so lately.

I never really expected the staying over idea to follow through anyway, but Lisa's not as unwilling to supply a little champagne! ;) She can trust me, anyway - I hardly drink and when I do, it's responsibly. Fez and I just want to make it "special", is all. :P

So, instead of that whole idea, we've settled on me going over to his place on Sunday, going out to lunch, having dinner, the possiblity of champagne, a late movie, and probably me going home past midnight...

Then on Monday, him coming over to my place for a veg-out on the couch, watching TV and being lazy all day. ^_^

So yes, I hope those couple of days go as well as I hope they do.. I probably won't be on and blogging on those days, so you'll probably find out on Tuesday, y'all. :P

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  1. EasyToSay

    ahhh sounds great, Happy 100 Days!! !

    I hope you two get lots of alone time together and enjoy our Long Week-end!

    Have a good one

    June 06, 2008
  2. Mezlie

    Thanks alot, Ottehey and E2S! _

    June 06, 2008
  3. meredith

    Happy Anniversary!! I am finding myself quite envious of your relationship with Fez but, mostly, just happy for you!

    June 06, 2008
  4. Mezlie

    Thanks TheAlreadyJaded and Meri!

    Meri, Fez and I, not to sound up myself, are probably worth envying (at this moment in time anyway :P).. This is honestly the most happy, supporting relationship I’ve been in yet, I’ll keep it going as long as I possbily can.

    June 07, 2008
  5. meredith

    Good for you that you can appreciate a good thing while you have it. Better that than the old saying “don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone”.

    June 07, 2008